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What is your stance on pushing labels onto others?
I’m curious what other people’s opinions on sexualities and labels are. Do you think it’s wrong to assume/push sexualities onto others? Do you think sexualities/labels are something we need? What are your experiences and thoughts?
As someone who does not identify as any specific sexuality (my personal belief that love doesn’t need to be labeled), I’ve often had people misinterpret that and assume I just didn’t know what my sexuality was and try to insist on “finding” a sexuality for me. This of course aggravated me greatly...but interestingly enough, I had more issues (homophobia, gatekeeping, invalidation, ect.) ,both within the LGBTQ+ community and outside, when I identified as a certain sexuality as opposed to just being transparent.
I think if you want to be labeled, that's fine and if you don't want to be labeled that's fine too. In terms of labeling other people/characters I generally hate it because there are a lot of people who take their assumptions on a higher level than a headcanon and treat it like actual canon. I find this is particularly a problem with people/charact...... reply
