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Is it hard to find a good lover?
To make my question clearer, I am curious about if people find partners that really treat them right. By good lover, I just mean that they won't force things or pressure you into anything without your consent or change personalities and so on. I know it differs from person to person, and I won't be able to make a conclusion about how "common" or "numerous" good people are, but I would like to hear about others' experiences with their partners! I would be very grateful if anyone would take the time to answer! As a person who has never had a boyfriend or girlfriend, but afraid of a bad relationship, I just hope that if I start actively pursuing relationships instead of waiting for the right one to fall in my lap, that I won't... well meet a jerk and get hurt.
If you are never going to search someone, you will never find anyone. Its not like we can pick guys on a tree or they fall from sky. You need to get to know the person talking with him or her a lot. For exemple I found my first boyfriend on Tinder and we are still together. Its been only a little more than 2 years and we are now living together a...... 1 reply
I think friends is a good start.
The person I'm with right now is my first serious relationship where I wasn't forced into it, I'm truly in love with her, however we've been best friends for around 8 years and eventually i fell in love with her (we've been in a relationship for a year now) , this goes to show that the person who you might end up be...... reply
In my opinion, being lovers always start with being good. Like we sees them perfect but after further development in the relationship, the goodness in them just slowly dissolving. This ended up make any other kind of relationship broken or maybe bland. I have experienced this and yes it is hard to find a good lover.
I used to be in relationship w...... 1 reply
Hellooo I'm 19 and in my first serious relationship with my boyfriend, we've been dating for about six months. I had a girlfriend for a few months in high school, but we were both going through some things so it was hard for both of us to commit to one another. We mutually decided we were better as friends.
Anyways, I would answer your question wi...... 1 reply
Well let me tell you I used too be that gay guy everybody would see and jugde as a hoe... Lol...
Well I dated a lot of people ( I tired girls too not my taste ) and nobody seemed right for me I made friends and I had a lot but one day after being friends with this cute guy for almost three years he confessed even though he heard all the bad comme...... reply
