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Is it hard to find a good lover?
To make my question clearer, I am curious about if people find partners that really treat them right. By good lover, I just mean that they won't force things or pressure you into anything without your consent or change personalities and so on. I know it differs from person to person, and I won't be able to make a conclusion about how "common" or "numerous" good people are, but I would like to hear about others' experiences with their partners! I would be very grateful if anyone would take the time to answer! As a person who has never had a boyfriend or girlfriend, but afraid of a bad relationship, I just hope that if I start actively pursuing relationships instead of waiting for the right one to fall in my lap, that I won't... well meet a jerk and get hurt.
If you are never going to search someone, you will never find anyone. Its not like we can pick guys on a tree or they fall from sky. You need to get to know the person talking with him or her a lot. For exemple I found my first boyfriend on Tinder and we are still together. Its been only a little more than 2 years and we are now living together a...... 1 reply
In my opinion, being lovers always start with being good. Like we sees them perfect but after further development in the relationship, the goodness in them just slowly dissolving. This ended up make any other kind of relationship broken or maybe bland. I have experienced this and yes it is hard to find a good lover.
I used to be in relationship w...... 1 reply
