how do i get ppl to use multiple pronouns on me?

i use it/they/xe pronouns but my friends only use “they/them” on me and occasionally use it/its on me, they never use its/xe pronouns on me unless i ask them.ik i can’t force them to but it gets annoying when they act like they blessed me when they use my “it/xe” pronouns once and never again, i just want them to do it an equal amount of times.