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It's not normal if my mom beats me? Like sometimes when I ''talk back'' (I mean honestly I'm usually just trying to explain myself but she calls it talking back) she hits me and I didn't think it's like abnormal cause she usually is nice , tolerant and things like that But when I tell her I don't think she should hit me she tells me I deserved it cause I was rude Or once she told me she never hit me (which is untrue she hit me a lots of times) I told her she did and reminded her couple times she hit me but then she said I deserved it back then lmaoo
but usually she acts really nice and caring when she is not mad so maybe I'm just overdramatic ٩(❛ᴗ❛)۶
I don't think you're being overdramatic. I don't have the same cultural or parental background as you, but I feel like it's strange for a parent to hit you just because you tried to explain or talk to here. I do not approve of physical discipline in minor cases. Your mother may think this will condition you to not "talk back" or not be rude, but I ...... reply
This is what u call gaslighting. To say that you “deserve” it just because you tried to explain yourself & didn’t let her walk all over you is emotional manipulation and abuse. Let me be clear here, you will get many different answers about whether it is ok to beat a child. It is not, but there are people who will tell you it’s absolutely n...... reply
i used to have this with my mom too. she'd throw random things at me or hit me, but then we'd be fine after an hour or so. It took me a while to recognize how bad it was since once she actually left a mark. I knew i couldn't tell her to stop cause she wouldn't listen, so I told my doctor. We ended up have a serious conversation and she hasn't hit m...... reply
"but usually she acts really nice and caring when she is not mad so maybe I'm just overdramatic"
no. just no. this is abusive behaviour, you shouldn't be glad for her being "nice and caring" when she's not mad. it's not fine. you shouldn't be okay with this kind of behaviour from your own mother.
you ''talking back" might come off a bit rude to ...... reply
You're not being overdramatic. I have qualms about corporal punishments. I know that it's considered unlawful in some, if not most, countries and it is considered as grounds for abuse. Growing up, I think most have experienced being hit by their parents. I mean I hope not, but I know many of us are.
You're not alone in your plight. I've been "bea...... reply
actually i deal with the same thing, sometimes my mom is really nice but sometimes she hits me and calls me names. She says it's discipline and i say thats bullshit. if someone resorts to hitting just because you "talked back" and deny that she hit you, even though it happened multiple times, it is REALLY toxic and abusive. reply
my mom used to do the same, but mine was worse, like no food for 3 days, locked up in my room with no food or toys, now she doesn't do it put I have a pretty bad case of PTSD. she denies ever hitting me to doing anything to harm me but i think the same as you do. When she gets drunk tho (like at new years) she'll grab my hair and slap me or just ye...... 1 reply
No you're not overdramatic, tell her that you'll call the cops lmao jk but don't do it
You can tell her that it hurts and that you're just trying to explain the situation reply
