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It's not normal if my mom beats me? Like sometimes when I ''talk back'' (I mean honestly I'm usually just trying to explain myself but she calls it talking back) she hits me and I didn't think it's like abnormal cause she usually is nice , tolerant and things like that But when I tell her I don't think she should hit me she tells me I deserved it cause I was rude Or once she told me she never hit me (which is untrue she hit me a lots of times) I told her she did and reminded her couple times she hit me but then she said I deserved it back then lmaoo
but usually she acts really nice and caring when she is not mad so maybe I'm just overdramatic ٩(❛ᴗ❛)۶
i got hit a lot when i was young because i was being a literal jerk so usually the weapons they would use are: however they would tell me to never do it again and they would tell me that they love me
but my friend told me that they had to kneel on rock salt until they know what they did wrong which is very concerning tho 2 reply
If she won’t even let you explain that’s a problem, since it might make you unconsciously think that you explaining yourself is wrong, which isn’t good I mean my mother yells at me for every tiny mistake i do so, now Im really concious on things people ask me for anddd i feel like I’m a nuisance so I end up panicking, and unfortunately thou...... reply
It sometimes depends on things happening around your society.
Like when you found out that the other kids doesn't get hit by their parents or that they were hit but isn't as severe than you, you know that these things aren't normal.
Like if she is really nice and rarely hit you, you probably are just being overdramatic. But when the time when sh...... reply
yeah someone else said it already.... Your Mom is doing what is called "gaslighting". The thing with that is if you do not get counseling or psychological support for yourself, you may end up dating someone who does the same.
These ppl who gaslight can drive ppl to suicide, make you think you are crazy, etc.
Get some kind of help ASAP reply
beating your child is not healthy.
i will not say something like "it's not normal," because in many cultures it sadly is, but it is not healthy. especially if you don't have any conversation after that and just pretend nothing happened.
my dad never physically abused me, as his parents did to him, but he would verbally abuse me, and gaslight me li...... reply
