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Being a part of the LGBT community, what's the most hurtful thing someone said to you?
Being a part of the LGBT community, what's the most hurtful thing someone said to you?
Just to share, I'm gay and I've been called "disgusting" straight to my face. Someone even told me "If you don't change, you'll end up alone someday". . . He even called me a faggot.. It's not for you to say if I'll end up alone someday. You don't have an idea how much I've been through for you tell me those things. And if I end up being alone someday, I'll gladly accept that path. I'm ready for that possibility. So don't remind me of that, because I've already thought of it a hundred times even before you did. My life will continue being a story of bravery. Yes. I still keep getting hurt by those words everytime a person say that to my face. To be called a "disgusting faggot" who'll end up being alone someday. Who'll end up being left. Those words still make my breathing slower everytime I hear them. But, you're just another one of those people. And not just another one of you could waver this courage down. This "faggot" is a resilient fuck, who'll slap you with you're stupid judgements.
I was still in the closet and almost every day for a year, I had to listen to my gradmother screaming about how gay people are sick and that they should all die - by her hands, preferably 2 reply
I poured my heart out to this girl I like and she said "Oh, you're one of those people." she unfriended me and spread rumors about me. I don't really care and I've been called worse but that shit HURT man, she was my best friend since primary school and the first person I came out to. reply
my mom said that i was a disappointment and a disgrace to her and my family when i told her when i was eight that i was lesbian, and because of that i have changed my sexuality cuz now i am pansexual, and even though it was now five years ago she still says that she wishes i was not her daughter reply
my dad said gays are equivalent to pedophiles and should go to hell. I'm in the closet to my parents only my brother knows. but I wanted to scream like fuck. reply
I came out as non-bianary to my step-mom and my mom my mom told me "No." Then I had asked my mom if i could get a binder for Christmas instead of some boots and she told me "god made you a girl, not a boy." We had a fight and since my mom doesn't even have my custody I cut her out of my life
When I came out as Bisexual she told me I needed to "pick...... 2 reply
dang bro, I was like what, 12, I came out to my family. They said they accepted me at first but time went by and they’ve been showing me some videos of people with pans and saying there pansexual or some shit, then they come at me calling me faggot. Sheesh, also at school when I decided to come out to my friends, I had some supporting friends whi...... reply
I'm straight but this one time I had to tell a guy that I'm lesbian just to make him stop harassing me (ik I shouldn't have done that but it really was my only option at that point) and to which he replied by saying 'good luck being a dung beetle in your next life' I felt really bad and I realised that whatever I as a straight woman have to go doub...... 1 reply
"You lgbtq+ deserve all tha hate and discrimination you're receiving.
It's all your fault. If you'd lived and acted accd to the bible and god's will, none of this would have happened."
This after seeing a news about a teenager scalded (of boiling water) by his own mom cause of being gay.
It's rich, coming from a religious person who goes to chu...... reply
Though I could never relate to the oppression you guys face on a day to day basis, it makes me extremely mad that people feel the need to discriminate against you just because you don’t share the same interests as them. But I hope you know that you’re not alone.
I luv you, so keep being you, and don’t let those words get to you. reply
im used to being called insults because of being gay (like "ew *slur* *slur* or "you're disgusting"), but the most hurtful insult is when it comes from fellow lgbtq. as a pansexual, there are some lgbtq people that call us transphobic or biphobic and it sucks. we're not against them, we're just vibing with our own sexuality. it's not just insulting...... 1 reply
