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Should I put myself out there or wait?
Okay so I’m about to be 18 in August and I’m pretty lonely like I know I want a relationship not bc I’m lonely but idk if I should put myself out there and be hey slide in my dm and shit like that or I should just wait for the right guy or person to come around when the time is right. Bc I feel like if I put myself out there I might seems and start going desperate or should I keep my head up and hold my pride and just wait for someone to come to me??
That's never an easy question to answer as everyone is different and some things may work for some and not for others. It is not a crime or a sign of desperation if you talk to some people online and get a sense of what you like and to see if you have common interests that may lead to more. However, it is advisable to be careful in who you talk to ...... reply
Don't wait. That's how you get missed opportunities and regrets. I'm not sure what you mean by putting yourself out there. Some girls put themselves out there by showing more cleavage and having their ass hanging out of shorts. And sure, that might work if you're looking for a quickie. But if you're looking for a relationship, be yourself. You're a...... reply
I think it's better to put yourself out there,if you don't know how to start I guess the best way is signing in to a dating app(whichever is the best in your country)and see how stuff goes. Also I advise that you don't wait for guys to approach you,if you have a guy you like go talk to him and get to know him,if you wait too much soon you will have...... 1 reply
Are you usually a social butterfly? Then put yourself out there, meet new people without directly looking for a relationship, hang out with your friend's friends, join a club - you obviously like Manga - how about some kind of “Otaku” group? Or go to a festival, there you'll meet lots of people with the same hobby, if you like a group sports, j...... 1 reply
I think that knowing what you want is the best thing you can do for yourself no matter what. I'd say that you can try treating online dating as a way of experimenting/learning more about yourself and what you consider essential in a relationship IF you feel like you can take proper precautions. Feelings arrive whenever tf they want, so it's better ...... reply
