Always fujoshis ig

People always talk about how fujoshis fetishized boys and rape, like “it’s just fiction” yeah ok, I agree that’s so wrong to do that. But why don’t we ever have a convo about how people fetishized yuri and girls too? I’ve seen plenty of mangas and manhwas where girls get raped by old farts and guys. Like ok we’ve had plenty of talk about fujoshis how bout we complain over this now?