To all yaoi haters

Hello there lads, ladies and non binary daisy's.
I got a genuine question for the yaoi haters out there. I personally read bl and yaoi, but I put a fine thick line between reality and fiction.
But that wasn't my question. My question is what are your opinions about fudanshi's. For the people that don't know.
Fujoshi: a person that identifies as female that reads yaoi.
Fudanshi: a person that identifies as male and reads yaoi.
Because I had this talk with someone and their opinion was different with fudanshi's. And the other person their opinion stayed the same regarding both of them
I am just really curious so I wanted to aks if you guys could awnser.
Thank you and have a nice day. (⌒▽⌒)