i think theyre completely valid, but i get the part where it's hard to remember it for most people!! if you feel like you'll forget, then just dont use pronouns for them is the simplest way to avoid it. by dont use pronouns for them i mean instead of 'i dont know them, what did they do?' just say 'i dont know [name], what did [name] do?' like that! reply
It's really not that hard to remember especially if you know them like I've said previously I know a girl that goes by kitten/kitten self and she's very kind tho I can understand where it gets weird but it's not too bad tho someone said previously that they met someone that went by wooden spoon.. I got to admit I will laugh right in their face and...... reply
