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Dating older ppl
Currently crushing HARD on a guy 20 years older than me. Should I pursue it if I have the chance or let it go? Also have any of you dated WAY older ppl before?
It's hot to think about in theory but in practice if the older guy is willing to date someone so young he is definitely predatory and will take advantage of your innocence. So stay safe out there 1 reply
imo If ur still in ur early 20s or less definitely not, as shitty as it sounds, dating someone with a significant age gap when ur a young adult will just end up in a unhealthy and power imbalance relationship reply
If youre over 25 then by all means, if not i do NOT suggest it at all️ A generational gap like that when your prefrontal cortex isnt fully developed is a bad idea and frankly predatory, if the other party pursues you as well. 100% no if youre under 20, not even something to consider. reply
Depends on how old you are, if you are like 20. Probably not, take your time to finish school, get stable and understand what you want in life. But honestly, if you think he will treat you right than go for it gurl! 1 reply
I dont think its about the age gap but more about your current age, like 40/60yo is noway to be compared to 17-37. These kinda usually fail to make it work with people surrounding them because everybody knows who they are, so they think its more convenient to con younger people as its set by default that the older in the most mature and respected. ...... reply