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How do I stop attracting creeps?
I feel a bit mean calling stalkers creeps but man, if you stalk, you are really creepy - from someone whose be stalked too many times. I'm posting this after my heebie jeebies have calmed down a bit from my most recent creep experience. I'm only 16, go to an all girls school, live in a decent suburb in Sydney, I'm pretty tall and big (176cm, 57kg) and I stand up straight so I don't look like a conventional easy target, BUT, I've been stalked full on by two people, followed on my way home once, and just then my older sister found out that our family friend who is 25 or so wants to do weird shit to me... It's too nasty, you know think 18+ I honestly feel so sick of it all and I don't know what im doing to deserve this. I feel like Im disgusting and I have trust issues and am half delusional now. I'm not even good looking or so. I don't even interact heavily with the people that end up stalking etc being creeps to me. What am I doing wrong??
I’m a 29 year old girl and trust me, creeps are going to exist your whole life. It’s the joy of being a woman. But it’s not your fault, EVER and it never will be... and honestly you can’t do much about it.
Practice loving yourself and building your confidence and then they won’t bother you as much :) sorry this happens to you, but you�...... 2 reply
You can never “stop” attracting creeps because people are assholes and people are everywhere. I’d recommend staying in public places. Don’t go into alleyways or secluded areas if you feel you’re being followed.
I’d just like to add, I’m sorry this is happening to you bb. You’re not disgusting. Shit is disgusting, and you’re not sh...... 1 reply
Unless you're not looking human, creeps are still gonna be attracted to you hun. Not your fault, it doesn't have anything to do with attractiveness and your body, they are just gross human being.
Just be cautious and you are right not to trust people easily. Have family members be with you when you go outside and stay safe.
I feel sad for you cau...... reply
I have had the same problem growing up. I tall, curvy but more so with muscle because I always did heavy labours jobs and I'm always physically on the go. I don't know how I was single yet had so many stalkers. One guy named Altony stalked me from 16 until 31. Going as far as to jump in front of my car, secretly make friends with my dad and try to ...... reply
Girl I feel you. I'm 16 too. But I'm 158 cm and 45 kg. So I'm small and I do not look intimidating. And I'm not bragging or anything but people say I'm attractive (all credits to my mom even tho I hate that bitch) and I've encountered a lot of creeps. My only defense mechanism is that I take taekwondo lessons. Still I can't go giving roundhouse ki...... reply
I'm sorry to hear that. And thanks for consulting here, it will help you and encourages other people to talk about this matter who had been stalked too. First of all, you can't stop people to stalk you coz there are weird people everywhere. But you can avoid it or prevent it from happening. 1.) NEVER BE ALONE. I think, you should always have someon...... 1 reply
