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Straight Ladies
i'm mostly curious about the straight ladies on this website. would you tell your guy about your yaoi obsession? cuz like, do you want him to accept you for who you are or keep your fujoshiness to yourself? for me, i HAVE to hide it cuz i'm just not confident in telling him tbh.
Who the fuck cares lmao it’s not a big deal. It’s the same as saying “I like action” or “I like fantasy” there’s nothing to “accept” because it’s just a genre that you enjoy reading. 2 reply
I'm ace, but I'm heteroromantic, so yeah in the hypothetical situation of me getting a boyfriend he would just have to deal with it. It's not really something I try to hide in the first place.
I mean, last week at the geek store I literally waved a BL book right in the face of two of my male classmates whilst excitedly bragging about how they had t...... reply
I always tell my boyfriends :)
The fear of being judged as weird is normal, but I know almost all of them fantasize on two woman (and watch porn of it), so I just use this to explain my liking is the same as their. reply
I wish I had a man (or anyone else, I guess I don't care too much for gender? I actually don't really know)
But if I did, I'd tell him bit by bit, like I did with my friends, testing the waters. Well he'd know it in the end, I like to talk about what I read way too much not to let it be known that I like Yaoi. But in the end he doesn't have to like...... reply
I actually started dating my bf, by telling that I'm a fujyoshi , a very hardcore one if I mAy say so myself! And he was very understanding , and curious about this whole thing..
He was totally fine with and said he liked watching Yuri every once in a while himself, (but ofcourse that's way different from being fujyoshi!!)
All in all, I wouldn't d...... reply
I've never been in a relationship but I am pretty sure I wouldn't tell them. Yaoi is a form of porn so it would be a bit odd, just like if they started telling me they are obsessed with lesbian porn it would be weird. Also i don't think of me liking yaoi as an important part of "who i am". I am my personality, aspirations and experiences not my por...... reply
I recently broke up with my bf, and while in the relationship I honestly was kinda afraid to tell him. I did end up telling him and he teased me about it a little, but overall he was cool with it. 1 reply
Eh it's not affecting his life in any way, so why should it matter? It's not like I'm reading it purely for the porn aspect. Plus the yaoi I read is intertwined with all the other non-bl I read, so I'm just an overall manga/manhua/webtoon reader that just so happens to like bxb. reply
