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Straight Ladies
i'm mostly curious about the straight ladies on this website. would you tell your guy about your yaoi obsession? cuz like, do you want him to accept you for who you are or keep your fujoshiness to yourself? for me, i HAVE to hide it cuz i'm just not confident in telling him tbh.
First of all, obsession what obsession? I just like it. About telling my bf, if he asks I wouldn't deny it, but I wouldn't bring this topic up as well. If I did, I imagine this kind of conversation will occur;
- Hey love, I actually enjoy reading gay ppl being gay.
- Oh, cool, I enjoy watching lesbian porn, does that count?
- It's the thought that ...... reply
Well I don't have a boyfriend but if I did I would tell him because this is a big part of my existence and if he can't accept that we shouldn't be together. Even my parents know about my fujoshiness so it'd be weird if my parents can accept me and he can't 1 reply
Well, I'm bi but I've only dated guys so far.. and yeah, I think you always have to tell the truth about who you are, no matter what. The main point in a relationship for me is not having any secrets and accepting and loving your partner in all their aspects. Also, in my case, being a fujoshi wasn't the weirdest thing to confess. Try having to tell...... 1 reply
uhm i dont HAVE a guy so idk. but probably? i mean if the topic or something related comes up and i trust him enough to not go around telling others about it then yes. reply
My lover found out by chance and they were not happy about it at first, however they understood that reading love stories, gay or not, is something I really enjoy and now we're good; we don't talk about it though, so nobody really knows that I am a fujoshi reply
Honestly it is his loss if he doesn't accept it. If I can accept his porn activities then he can accept my love for Yaoi. However, honestly Yaoi and porn can be unhealthy for a relationship because it can fill your mind with fantasies which can make you overthink and overestimate how your partner should look or act like. reply
When we started dating, I didn't told him right away, is still something personal to share. We are already dating for a long time now, so I kinda start talking about it, at the end of the day is something of my daily life, he was pretty okay with it, he actually doesn't like it personally, but he likes listening to me talking about the stories, and...... reply
I wouldn't hide nor would I give a shit what the guy would think. I also wouldn't give a shit if he watched porn. If he has a problem, the door is always there. No man is worth my BL reply