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Came out as gay, then realized they were straight.
So, I've noticed that there's alot of people questioning their sexuality. I'm wondering if anyone has ever come out as gay then realized they were straight? I thought I was bi because I related to alot posts online about it (dumb shit like not sitting in chairs properly, fingerguns, ect.), cameout, and then refused to accept that I was actually straight lmao. Then I had to re-comeout to alot of people and it was awkward as all hell.
The whole "sitting in chairs thing" and "fingerguns" were a joke, it's just that a lot of bisexuals do it. It all comes down to whether or not you feel attracted to the same gender and the opposite gender (even genders outside of the spectrum). But yes, some people can think they are bisexual when in fact, they re straight. It's apart of life, some...... 1 reply
i kind of understand.
i’m genuinely a very confused person and still don’t know where i stand with a lot of things. that being said i thought that i was ‘pansexual’ for a while and ‘came out’ to my mum and my older sister in a really awkward and confused way. i thought i was going to die then and there because i was crying so much as i...... 1 reply
hmmmm... I honestly don't know what to say to you here without sounding like I'm being rude. I'm not trying to be... and will do my best, but you shouldn't think that you are bi just because you relate with some of their tendencies. I'm not bi, but I'm not straight and I do a lot of the things that "bi people do". That doesn't mean that I'm suddenl...... 3 reply
There's nothing wrong with that, love. As a a member of the LGBTQ+ community I think it's great that you were open to the idea of experimenting with your sexuality. Your original post rubbed me wrong but the follow up cleared it up for me. Just so you know, the fact that you were able to be aroused sexually by another woman might signify that you a...... 1 reply
i had a kind of similar problem. came out as bi, then i started wondering if i was straight, then started wondering if i was lesbian, and then i just sat myself down for a bit and thought 'does it really matter to me?? do i care??' like tbh i don't really care about whatever the fuck the person is. if they're interesting, i'll like them. so i ident...... 2 reply
