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My birthday is today and I have no friends

shiishios shiishios 2023-08-12 16:55:27 About making friends
It's my 29th birthday but none of my friends remembered or wished me a happy birthday

I feel like I have no friends, what should I do? I used to make friends in school or at work but I'm now working from home so I don't have many places to go and most of my hobbies are solo

I'm feeling really lonely and alone, is there anyway to make friends?

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k.. August 13, 2023 4:09 am

happy late birthday!!

Like u August 12, 2023 11:06 pm

It's late but happy birthday...may your wish come true even if it's late

Shadow August 12, 2023 8:25 pm

Happy birthday! Wishing you all the best, lots of health, happiness, love and success! Oh and delicious bday cake too, so keep smiling :)

Taking up some activities around you (gym, swimming, sports, library, cooking, language courses, etc.) might help you make new friends. And if you're courageous enough, could try to come up to strangers n start a convo. Anyways, don't forget to enjoy yourself and have fun in everything you do!

mavro August 12, 2023 5:24 pm

Happy Birthday! (⌒▽⌒)/ I hope you have an enjoyable day even if it's solo

In regards to your question about making friends, I recommend first taking a minute to think about what type of friend you want.
Do you want a friend who shares your interests or someone you can talk to about random facts and emotions? If you want a friend who shares your interests I recommend just searching some groups online and seeing how you go from there. If you want someone to be there more emotionally than shared interest (hobby) wise then I recommend trying out face-to-face workshops of stuff you might want to try out (pottery, crochet, archery, etc.).

If you want a friend who you can talk to about emotional stuff but also talk about your interests (hobbies) and might be opposed to meeting people outside in any way then my only advice is to look for online groups in regard to your hobbies and finding people there that you don't dread/dislike talking to, start a conversation and then eventually try to become friends.

A reminder that online people are not always what they seem and no matter what (online and IRL) you should not trust someone right off from the start. Do not share personal info like your real name, face, address, etc. before being totally sure the person is trustworthy. Also if you want to meet a person from online for the first time in person make sure to meet in a public space with lots of people.

Again, happy bday and I hope you the best ^^

whisk August 12, 2023 5:21 pm

happy birthday

ianleestan23 August 12, 2023 5:18 pm

Happy birthday

tzking August 12, 2023 5:16 pm

Yeah. And reach out to me if you want a online friend or something

tzking August 12, 2023 5:12 pm

Happy birthday! You know sometimes the answer to your loneliness could be close by to you.

Cumdumpsterforanyonesearching August 12, 2023 5:09 pm

Happy birthdayyyy you should make today all about you man. Maybe go shopping, eat out, go on a date or just stay at home and enjoy yourself, you have treat yourself babe!
Love youuu (≧∀≦)

mochichan August 12, 2023 5:08 pm

Happy birthday! Maybe try signing up for classes around you! My local library often holds knitting events, book clubs, etc for adults. Maybe you can give those a try? Don't give up! I'm rooting for you (≧▽≦)

mochichan August 12, 2023 5:09 pm

I'm also down to talk if you want to!

polkadots August 12, 2023 5:05 pm

Happy birthday!! I always go somewhere to eat when its my birthday. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

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