No. I’ve decided that I don’t want kids, maybe in the future if I change my mind then adoption but it’s a hard no. I’ve been a default babysitter for so long that it’s put me off from having kids but also fear. Fear of everything that could go wrong during and after pregnancy. Also I’ve seen many people around me struggle with the expan...... reply
No~
I get baby fever sometimes, but I logically have a list of reasons why I don’t want to. I haven’t wanted any since I myself was a child. Here’s a few reason:
1. Childbirth aka normalized torture
2. Numero uno would become numero dos
3. Money - children? Not in this economy
4. You die in childbirth? Preeclampsia? Other health reasons?
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Hubby and I were togather for 8yrs before our Son came. We were in our early 30s as well. Established careers, traveled, lived as we should have.. I suggest it too. Dont miss out. We wouldnt ever change it if we could ... reply
Yeah ig. Max is 3. I would probs do it through adoption or ill be a foster parent. To me, fostering a child who's in need is something more ppl needs to do cus im sick and tired of shitty parents treating their kids like absolute garbage. reply
It’s an option but I think I’d mostly gonna be the aunt/uncle. You can have a kid without the full responsibility, and probably be their favorite because I don’t nag them like their parents. A win win on my book reply