What is your sexuality? When did you really figure it out?

So, I am male, hella gay. I figured out that I was gay around... 4 years ago? I fell for my friend. And after fighting in my head for 1 years, I told him I was gay. I was so scared, but he completely accepted me. After a good 1 years, we had a little experiment to see if we could possibly be in a relationship (I mean, we were 13 or 14, (I have a horrible memory) so we waited one year okay? shut up) but it didn't work out. But we are good friends up to this day. And I'm so glad that he is in my life. ヾ(☆▽☆)