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Not to crush on a person that's attractive
How do I not start crushing on a person in the same school I'm at? They're very attractive and we've talked like once or twice last year, I don't think they even remember me...That's why I'm going to call it infatuation cause it's mostly their looks that I'm attracted to. We're not in the same class and I don't think they'd approach me since we only have two things in common which is watching a certain anime and being the same age....
I really want tips for how not to start crushing on them again I really can't afford the mental toll it'll take on me, and neither the mental gymnastics I have to do for me to explain why looking for them wherever I go and trying to grab their attention is definitely me not liking them ignoring the obvious answer and the nice feeling I used to get when thinking of them. Sorry I wrote alot and possibly even rambled because I can't tell anyone any of this.
That's a good thing you have a crush on a real person, because I'm assuming you're an anime fan or someone who enjoys manga, and you know our fandom keeps saying 2d is better than 3d, like are you for real? They are not real, you can't touch them, you can't talk to them, and they can't do anything for you, so please go out and talk to real people....... 3 reply
Nah I get it cuz I’m no longer a high schooler but back in HS I was like this.
When I crushed on guys it was often this sort of infatuation and I didn’t know them at all. I was crushing on the ~fantasy~ or the IDEA of them and who I thought they could be. And tbh the whole thing took a mental toll on me too. Looking back I am embarrassed ove...... 1 reply
