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There's a friend of a friend who's looking for friends w/ benefits kinda thing, (not specifically w/ me, but in general). I'm considering taking up the offer cause I'm horny, and it'd be rlly rlly nice to have sex. I'm just so worried and anxious of if he'll think that I'm not pretty or if he's not a virgin, (but I am) and I'll do something stupid. Ik that first times aren't all too great and thats fine and whatever, but like- idk, how do yall deal w/ this anxiety abt sex
Hookup culture is literally destroying our society man, you should put more value on these decisions. You'll regret wasting it on some shithead who doesnt value you as a woman but only desires you as an object of sexual relief. If you REALLY do want this, make your own decision and make sure you set boundaries. Wishing you well. 3 reply
What is he like putting out ads or something LMAO?? This should be obvious but at least be friends with him first, like he could be a fucking loser. Also if you’re a girl, keep in mind that casual sex is more risky on your end than his. You’re horny sure but who’s to say he’d even care about your pleasure or safety? How many ppl is he gonna...... 6 reply
Your friend looking for a FWB like it's a job offer is making me laugh I'm sorry. Like there's no way his dick can be good LMFAOOOO js don't do it. Dw too much 1 reply
you dont need to worry about you're not enough for this sex-starved dude, its not a job interview just sexual relieves but tbh never have sex with someone who's "looking for" fwb, i hope you find someone who doesn't think people as pokemons that they can collect and have sex reply
Its not my place nor anyone to tell you what to do, but it all comes down to your own decision. If you truly want to do it, think carefully about the benefits, drawbacks and how it will affect your future reply
imma be real I regret my first time since it was a hookup, n all my other times fuckin... cause it wasn't genuine n it felt like a waste. but if you want this, do what ur gut tells u to do. also it doesnt matter pretty or not, being a virgin, inexperience, if the mood is right y'all will fuck regardless looool n if he's a asshole walkout there, you...... reply
I’d definitely recommend against it especially if you’re a virgin or get emotionally attached easily. Just creates a world of mess if you’re not emotionally detached enough to handle it. My advice: drink some water and go masterbate. The horniness will subside. reply
Do not lose your virginity to someone looking for FWB. There is nothing wrong with hooking up with people but first times can be meaningful and will leave an imprint on you (particularly for females). Getting naked with someone, penetration and doing intimate things with another (especially doing it for the first time) can definitely make you catch...... 1 reply
It would be better for you to do it with someone that actually loves and respects you, but if you’re fine with casual sex with not attachments then go for it. Just make sure to get to know him first and let him know he needs to get tested first. If he causally sleeps around there is a chance he has sexually transmitted diseases. Keep in mind if y...... reply