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FWB
There's a friend of a friend who's looking for friends w/ benefits kinda thing, (not specifically w/ me, but in general). I'm considering taking up the offer cause I'm horny, and it'd be rlly rlly nice to have sex. I'm just so worried and anxious of if he'll think that I'm not pretty or if he's not a virgin, (but I am) and I'll do something stupid. Ik that first times aren't all too great and thats fine and whatever, but like- idk, how do yall deal w/ this anxiety abt sex
I know many girls who started like this and ended up getting fcked over. Somehow their whole personality changed and they stopped valuing themselves. Won't even start about how many ended up with stds and pregnant lmao. Keep in mind the men who look for fwb don't care, they only see the women as holes to relieve their sexual urges. They couldn't ca...... reply
I get what you're feeling, I had a FWB last year and was anxious about the same things. First and foremost, make sure there is open communication. That's what's really really important, communication is very much key and was the main reason I had a good experience with my FWB and no one got hurt. If you're nervous about literally anything make sure...... reply
DONT DO HOOKUPS THEY LITERALLY SUCK it would be better to do it with someone who actually loves you and cares for you like hookups are just not it. 1 reply
I’ve had a few FWB (help) and I honestly don’t recommend, none of mine have been great experiences. I almost always end up falling for my partner and they never want to date and it ruins me every time. However, the decision is ultimately up to you just make sure the guy is a good communicator and that he still sees you as a person not as an obj...... 1 reply
