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do yall obsess over past friendships??
so ive been telling my friend of 3 years literally everything about this guy i had a crush on we were in the same friend group but she didnt really support it cause she thought he was a creep
after almost half a year of having a crush on him i noticed they were getting closer. whenever i saw them together i could literally feel my blood boiling but thought "eh theyre just friends maybe she had a change of heart"
eventually found out they started dating when i still had feelings for him. cut off all ties with her obviously.
the weird thing is even though i have absolutely zero interest left in him now i've become obsessed with her. i literally check her social media daily, cry to our photos together, listen to the songs she used to like. i have the number of her followers on all social media memorized and i regularly check if she liked something. ive seen her in my dreams at least twice every week
i mean i feel like im acting like a heartbroken ex but not for the right person????
do you guys mourn past friendships this intensely or like is this not normal
pookie bear your "friend" was obv a snake. 1, she was trying to get you to stop liking him so that they can get close
2, if she was a good friend she would've backed off cus no friend gets close to the person they know their friend likes
3, it's fine you miss her it's perfectly okay since it was a 3 year friendship but know that people come and g...... reply
see normally I would say no but this is FUCKED LMAOOO. I had the same thing happened to me, my bro stole her even tho he knew I was in love and still wanted to be friends. like nahh. im still not over it either but eventually I stopped caring like that cause it doesnt do me good. if you are really hung n obsessed block her on everything so u cant s...... reply
Uh i don't remember ever mourning a friendship that hard. But i am not really someone who can get super emotional over this. But I can definitely see why someone else might. You are heartbroken because the friend you trusted for 3 years has betrayed your trust. She lied about him being a creep so you would lose interest in him or basically won't pu...... reply
Listen to what everyone says here. I think you're obsessed because this might be you personally mourning that friendship in an unhealthy way.
Ask yourself these questions:
Perhaps something happened in the present that you are obsessed with her? Are you mourning and missing the friend that she was before she revealed her true colours? And now you...... reply
️ ️ ️ it's not out of pocket bc the one you had a relationship with was your ex friend not this guy. it's very sad and you deserve to be treated well. this is quite intense, not something everyone would do tho. i do mourn past relationships a lot, but not obsessing on them. mostly crying over past memories esp if anything reminded me of them...... reply
