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Are you parents accepting?
I have a question for queer people, do you think your parents are accepting? If you came out to them, did they accept you? If you didn't, how do you think they would react?
As for me, I don't really know. I told my mom once I love girls as well. And well, it's not like she was angry or disappointed, and overall I think she would be fine with whatever makes me happy- but I still got the feeling she would be happier if I was with a boy. Like, she got that I like both, but she hopes in the end I'll be "normal" with a boy. She didn't say that, but it's kinda the feeling I got. I mean, it's way better than having a homophobic parent, or getting disowned or whatever. But I geuss I feel kinda sad she might not accept me completely
My mom lowkey be acting that saying someone is gay is offensive but at the same time shes tolerant towards my sister having a girlfriend so idk.
And my dads definitely not open to gayness.
Like they aint HOMOPHOBIC but they'll make comments like "That hair make you look lesbian" or "that guy is gay hes wearing woman clothes." reply
fortunately i have a family that did accept me after i came out as trans and pansexual/aromantic
but they did NOT accept until more so recently (more recently like literally i came out as trans a month ago lol)
it took a long time to get here because
1. they were at first very close minded
2. denied my identity on multiple occasions
i came ou...... reply
Yes and no?? It's complicated because our cousin 'ruined' the LGBTQ for them. But really, my cousin is an attention seeking bitch. They know have 'good gays' and 'bad gays'
~ Urah 1 reply
No they aren't. Ngl i think my dad is gay cuz i went to thru his chrome history on his phone i was so shocked to see blacked, some gay porn, those porn videos where they fetishises black women or Japanese women... he still doesnt know that i found abt those things.... 3 reply
they've always hinted they wouldn't care who im bringing home but i think that faced with the situation they would actually care.. so im better off in the closet for now. reply
I haven't come out yet and I'm scared to do so. Therefore, I'm not really sure about their views regarding the LGBTQIA+ community.
My mom once found a paper with "GAY RIGHTS! TRANS RIGHTS!" written on it in my bag. She tore it and threw it away later on while looking at me weirdly. As for my dad, IDK at all cuz I've never seen him talk about or me...... reply
I'm not gay, but my family has a prejudice against LGBTQ people that they commit crimes. Of course, I don't believe that, because everyone is capable of committing a crime regardless of their sexuality, but their idea that LGBTQ people are more likely to use drugs or commit crimes stems from a history that I won't be sharing. I don't agree with the...... reply