Most disliked not talked about enough bl tropes

There’s a lot of bad tropes in bl out there but most of the standard ones are well known like consent, potato looking Ike’s but fine asf semes, red flags, spineless uke Ect.

But I’m more curious about the more annoying ones that NO ONE talks about.
So here’s mine(lowkey rant too): The vibrator in public during important things trope, like the amount of manwhas where the bottom is either forced to or agrees to it then straight up goes to an important work meeting or worse meet their parents with it in????
Like bro why??? Why tf would you go see your parents with a vibrator in that the top will turn on or a so called business meeting. It’s just so weird and icky like those are your parents dude and that’s your job/income.
You can’t just take it out for a second and pretend it was in? It’s just such an annoying trope and ruins the mood for me. Idk it just rubs me wrong.
What about you?