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Genders and sexualities
So I'm having a hard time trying to understand what my sexual orientation is... So I am attracted to some women I see and I do like women characters well, however I don't have as many crushes on women as I do on men... I fear than I'm not really bisexual and am lying about my sexual orientation Also I'm into both romance and sex, however when it comes to being in a relationship I'm kind of opposed by it? Like I feel claustrophobic when I'm in a relationship
if u like both u like both u dont have to measure anything? idk that in itself seems rooted in biphobia n if ur still confused u could just say ur bicurious or smth idk u dont have to label urself until u know n u can jus change it whenever u want
idk ab feeling claustrophobic in a relationship tbh if i say anything it might jus confuse u more (i...... 1 reply
Approach how you see fit.
You aren't really lying about your sexuality persay, you are just unsure because many people said they were [XYZ] sexuality when it ended up being another. Don't be afraid to change it if that is what it comes to. reply
idk y ppl r so hung on having a label when it rlly doesnt even matter jus do nd date what nd who u like, doesnt matter the gender just let ur feelings take the lead lol 1 reply
For me I get that a lot that why I don't put a label on what I am it make me feel better and make me feel like I'm just forcing myself on summmm that why I only just feel what I feel if I wanna date and chill wit a girlll I just do it or the same with a guy idk if this will help u or make senses to u in anyways this just how I feel 1 reply
I may be wrong but I thought you can be bisexual even if you are not equally attracted to both genders. It doesn't have to be 50/50. But in general, I feel that sexuality fluctuates, you don't have to label it and be 100% sure all the time.
For the relationship, do you only feel claustrophobic in relationship with someone of the same gender? In th...... 2 reply
This gives a good advice on labelling yourself when it comes to sexual orientations but believe me, be kind to yourself and reflect on whether or not you really need a label at the moment.
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