I would rather be the one working because in a relationship like this where someone is working and the other is not , the one who works always has a financial upper hand over the one not working. The home maker's attributes go completely unnoticed most of the times. Also imagine they dump you. How hard it would be to find a stable job and earn your...... 3 reply
okay i will be realistic here,
staying home,being housewife and everything sounds very comforting, and many people would opt for it, even i would too if i didnt know the reality of it
being dependent on someone else financially is the biggest mistake u can do, no matter how much u love the person or how romantic your marriage was
at one point your...... 1 reply
Both. I want to work to my core for couple years and then get married but still work but not to that extent and expect my partner to do the same and as time passes I'll reduce my work time gradually and become a stay at home partner.
This way I'll have money and a job if something does goes downhill and if it doesn't I rest w my partner after worki...... reply
i would LOVE to be a stay at home husband, BUT life had other plans ugh.
i enjoy doing household chores when i'm not working. cooking, cleaning, laundry, doing the dishes WHATEVER, i'll do it.
however i was unfortunately born in a world where i both my partner and i can't survive on his income alone. fuck the economy
i'm gonna retire and take u...... reply
My first instinct was to say stay at home husband, but tbh that's a recipe for very unequal partner dynamics. I think I'd want us both to have jobs, but maybe I'd work from home or something. 1 reply