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I NEED LOVE ADVICE ASAP!
so, I have a high school friend who I love secretly, now we're in college on a different city. We not close when high school, just know each other name and face. But when we start college, he started to message me frequently and we're a good buddies.
Now I'm on my third year of college that means we already talked for 3 years and he's confessed to me recently. But I'm an overthinker. I'm afraid he just after my body because after he confessed his feelings, he tell me that he want to go on a date then hs.
Is it normal or I'm just overthinking everything???
You mean that he said he wants to go out somewhere on a date and then end up at his place? If he said it like that, I would think in your place that we would hook up... maybe not full sex, but something. Does that mean he is just after your body? GIRL. GIRL!! No one is going to play the long 3 year game for some sexy time chance... maybe the long g...... 4 reply
I mean yall have been talking for three years. If he just wanted you for your body I feel like he would've asked you way sooner. I get the overthinking part cus I'm a bad overthinker too but if you really like the guy I say go for it and have fun. 2 reply
In my opinion, if he was just after your body he would have asked you out after 3 weeks, not 3 years.
You had the time to build a relationship and to get to know each other. That’s a good amount of time to build feelings, and not the length of a relationship people just throw away the window just for pillow time? Unless he is the type of people w...... 1 reply
Wait so he said he wanted to go on a date and then have s*x right after??? If you don’t want to risk it, I recommend trying to just have the date and if he keeps insisting then probably rethink going out with him. Of course, that’s only if you are uncomfortable with the fast pace. If you enjoy the date and consent to it, you get it girl ︎('ω...... 2 reply
