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I recently transferred to a new school and all of my classmates are guys exept for this one girl. How should I talk to them? Do I just do it naturally? I'm scared shitless of being ignored. The girl said that they were shy, so I'm scared they think that I'm weird or too ugly or something. I'm fine with girls, but I have a problem when speaking with people w a diff gender.
Bro same i cant speak with males. I just hate it like i actually like HATE any interactions with them Literally i tolerate my male friend thats it only one male i can tolerate in real life 1 reply
Hmm sometimes talking randomly with her bc she's in your class is actually a good idea like it makes you seem very friendly and charismatic yk, hard to explain but yeah? ('^ ^) reply
Try to help them with something; help them with school stuff, give them paper or a pen if they need one
Maybe compliment them on their shirt if it's something specific or new, congratulate them if they get a haircut (if that's appropriate in your culture).
Try doing small stuff and they'll slowly open up to you reply
Just be ur natural self. Dont force talking it will come naturally. Well i mean u should force it sometimes but that might make them uncomfy so like alittle "good morning" while passing by will be a good starting point.
Also you better not act Like you want their attention or acts like you want to be accepted by them coz if they dont Like you for ...... reply
Think of it as an asset. You are one of two girls in a class full of guys, you'll naturally get more eyes drawn to you, which gives a leg up when trying to establish yourself in that sort of setting. reply
they def won’t ignore u since ur one of the only girls, they probably want to talk to you but like she said just don’t have the courage, but if you make the first move and just talk, it might yield a surprisingly positive reaction… just try your best not to overthink, at the end of the day they’re normal humans too reply
