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I recently transferred to a new school and all of my classmates are guys exept for this one girl. How should I talk to them? Do I just do it naturally? I'm scared shitless of being ignored. The girl said that they were shy, so I'm scared they think that I'm weird or too ugly or something. I'm fine with girls, but I have a problem when speaking with people w a diff gender.
Hmm sometimes talking randomly with her bc she's in your class is actually a good idea like it makes you seem very friendly and charismatic yk, hard to explain but yeah? ('^ ^) reply
Try to help them with something; help them with school stuff, give them paper or a pen if they need one
Maybe compliment them on their shirt if it's something specific or new, congratulate them if they get a haircut (if that's appropriate in your culture).
Try doing small stuff and they'll slowly open up to you reply
Just be ur natural self. Dont force talking it will come naturally. Well i mean u should force it sometimes but that might make them uncomfy so like alittle "good morning" while passing by will be a good starting point.
Also you better not act Like you want their attention or acts like you want to be accepted by them coz if they dont Like you for ...... reply
they def won’t ignore u since ur one of the only girls, they probably want to talk to you but like she said just don’t have the courage, but if you make the first move and just talk, it might yield a surprisingly positive reaction… just try your best not to overthink, at the end of the day they’re normal humans too reply
Being scared shitless of being ignored probably is linked to a fear of rejection, if you work towards solving the root of why you feel the way you do towards talking to the opposite sex you might find that a lot of shit is way easier now. Im not a therapist but this form of anxiety can be treated, look into it if you can cause it wont hurt you or n...... reply
Try treating them like people instead of boys. Boys are different, and some might be douchy, some might me shy, some might be cool and some have more in common with you than you think.
Try connecting over something you have in common, like maybe you hear something in a conversation or you can ask if others like xyz reply
Well first understand their nature
Avoid talking to too much cringe n toxic mind or toxic masculinity boy
First talk about study related things
Then try to become social
Make sure only talk to guy who don't make u too uncomfortable
n don't talk weird at first reply
