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Almost 25 yo virgin
I am embarrassed but also not embarrassed but also can’t tell anyone about it but also don’t want to overhype s*x or expect it to be great the first time but also don’t what to meet weird people obsessed with purity culture but want to find someone who understands how important to me it is but also want to be in love with someone when I do it but also am insecure about my body but also am scared to start dating bc I don’t want men to think a certain way about me if I choose to tell them I’m a virgin and also don’t want to be perceived:/
it's pretty normal, i am almost 23 and still one. the right time comes eventually. little by little you can work on the things making you insecure, find someone you are friends with first so you can trust them not to perceive you differently if you tell them you are a virgin. you can do it (๑•̀ㅂ•́)و✧ reply
1) really, people don't care. People are so worried about themselves that I promise people don't care. And if they do they're incredibly immature and not worth your time. I think I have read that gen z in general is having less sex than previous generations despite being more sex positive. More people are virgins than you think, and it's usually 50...... reply
I'm a virgin cause sex is scary and I'm bitchless but in all honesty it doesn't really bother me since virginity is just a social construct that is sometimes used to shame people, especially women.
People should have sex when they want to, there's no age requirement for it (for adult people) reply
Everyone begins without much experience, and if your partner truly loves you, they won't care whether you're a virgin or not. As an asexual person, I don't see why someone's sexual history should be important. I believe you shouldn't feel pressured, and if your partner can't accept you for who you are, then they're not the right person for you. reply
Ty guys for this it really means a lot I think I’ve been stressing about it bc it’s normal for my friends or peers to talk about sex and share there experiences here I think talking about makes me anxious and I over think and feel like I’m missing out but don’t want to make decisions I might regret? I appreciate the answers and support reply
1) Don't rush it. Sex isn't the most important part of a relationship. You don't need to stress yourself about it as you get older. Don't get peer pressured to losing it.
2) Guys do not care about your body when you're about to do it. Trust me. Whatever you're insecure about, they won't care about it at the heat of the moment.
3) Men like virgin...... 1 reply
I've never met a guy that's ever shamed someone they love for being a virgin. The best thing you can do is to focus on self-love and learning how to be comfortable in your own body. That's not to say that your insecurities will disappear forever, but you'll learn to be more optimistic. reply
Its okay to be inexperienced, there is someone who will be attracted to you unconditionally and a lot of people have more awareness about purity culture as of now. Dont feel afraid to start dating, there is a right timing for everyone and maybe yours is coming around.
I think you should have sex with someone you love and/or are comfortable with se...... reply
