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Thoughts on sex before marriage?
I've been in a dilemma of whether having sex before marriage is okay or not. My bf currently has had physical relationships with his ex girlfriends, however it's my first relationship and I've never had sexual experience before. It's been around a year of us having a long distance relationship with only one date when he came to visit me in my city. He was prepared to have sex, which I declined. We kissed and hugged and other romantic stuffs which was all my first. He was talking about meeting me up in a couple of months again and said we should have sex this time. I really love him, however, i have mixed feelings about having sex on our date. It's a secret relationship and my family doesn't know about it obviously. I had thought about saving it till marriage, but even I feel like having sex w him sometimes, I overthink a lot on whether it's right or not. What are y'all opinions about it?
It's honestly up to you. Don't make the decision just cause he said he wants it, make sure you actually want to do it. If he's always coercing you despite your rejections, he's a red flag that can't respect your boundaries. Half of your question is about your partner, what about you?
If you make this decision based on your partner and not for your...... reply
if you don't feel ready don't do it, it should be something that you want it physically and mentally, also you shouldn't care about the "till marriage" no one will care about it if the other person loves you. Distant relationships aint easy and you might already know this if both of you don't have plans to stay in the same city sorry but this rela...... reply
I think if you’re not sure whether you want to have sex or not, you shouldn’t do it. If it’s your first time (or any time) you should have a full enthusiastic “YES.” If your answer is “I’m not sure” DONT DO IT. I feel like your first time is a big moment that you should be 100% ready to do. Take your time, be patient, you’ll get t...... reply
This is an interesting question! because many people, including myself, don’t want to ever get married. I’ve been with my current partner for about 12 years, and we’ve lived together about half of that so I never had this question of sex “before or after” because I’ve never been interested in marriage or having a wedding.
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I think it's entirely up to you. The first time having sex can be awkward, intimidating, and uncomfortable. But doing it with someone love, feel comfortable with, and that you want to do it with can be a great experience! You shouldn't let your partner pressure or coerce you into doing it though.
Before seeing him again, I would recommend communi...... reply
If u need a man point of view ...
There are two types of men when wants to s (based on your story)
A playboy who wants to try a new one and probably discard after having his fill
And the one who actually wants to get closer with s.
Ofc, the choice is yours. After all, you have to face the outcome. If you think virginity as a valuable thing, then d...... reply
