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wlw breakups
why are wlw breakups actually the worst?? Ive gotten over men in a matter of days but Id literally b lying if I said im over my first wlw rs from fuckin years ago I guess it's bc Ive only evr dated men out of curiosity but is this srsly a thing? I see a lot of ppl say wlw breakups r devastating but im not sure if its an inside joke im missing on or a real experience lol
Because in lesbian relationships y’all go from 0 to 100 in the span of four minutes. Lesbians don’t know the meaning of slow, if you haven’t already had a grandchild by the next week then you’re moving like a snail. Lesbians play hard, die hard. All or nothing with them bruh. Can’t blame y’all tho, im looking for a step-stud to be my ba...... 1 reply
I think with wlw it's more painful due to the fact there's more relatability to ur same sex spouse, purely based on the fact ur both women. It could also mean that you love women more than men which is more simple thatn the conclusion I came up with reply
Bi girl here,
I get emotional over every break up, but I would be lying if I said wlw breakups didn’t hit harder. For me I think it’s so hard losing the sex life aspect of wlw relationships, like I always felt more equal and less objectified when I was with women, also safer ngl. Then after the breakup you feel like you’ll never find someone ...... reply
I'm a lesbian and have only ever dated women so I can't say I'd know 100% but I'd be lying if I said the first relationship I've ever had didn't take 4 years of solitude and therapy to get over.
Seriously though all the relationships I've had just hit off so well right off the bat and last forever too. Most fellow lesbians I know can attest to ba...... reply
since it was ur first wlw breakup, it will defo hit harder cus it’s a first experience lol
I’m bi but my first relationship was with a boy, got over that quicker than my first wlw heartbreak tho. This is based on my experience, but with the guy he never really understood or connected with me on a rlly deep personal level than when I did with ...... reply
Lesbian here: It's both an inside joke and a possible truth. It really depends.
In the past, my relationships have ended on mutual terms- with little to no pain. However, I'm going through a painful one right now.
In my opinion, I think the idea that "wlw breakups are more painful" derives from the vulnerability queer relationships present. When ...... reply
Personally I have dated men and women and wlw relationships are way more difficult for me. I think it might have to do with wlw relationships intermingling the different pieces of their lives more. Like I had a relationship where both of our friend groups had essentially become one big group so the break up was really rough because you were also lo...... reply
