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confession
so my friend just confessed his feelings to me just now thru chat, and you know, I like him too. I'm just scared that things might go wrong with me, or that I might mess things up. I've never been in a relationship before, at all, so being awkward scares me at all. I'm also not satisfied with my life status yet, I want to be a bit rich to start dating other people. I also want to focus on my studies, get better. To sum it all up, I'm overall scared and overwhelmed that I don't exactly know what to do. Love or relationship is so complicated for me I really had to go here seek for advices lmaoooo. But yeah, he's a sweet angel and I'm scared to hurt him because of my incompetence.
If insecurity is what's preventing you from pursuing this relationship, I recommend going for it!
When my first bf started talking to me/asking me out on dates, I was fucking terrified because I did like him a lot, but I was so insecure at the time that I felt like I would just mess up, plus I had never dated before either. Somehow we still ended ...... reply
You know, I use to feel the same way. I didn't want to date or be in a relationship because I was not satisfied with where I was in life. I felt like I couldn't bring anything to anyones life until I was as successful as I wanted to be. It took me realizing that alot of people feel the same ( actually my friends told me lol ). I think you should te...... reply
Go do it you only live life once and you might regret it if you don't. You can still pursue your studies and earn money with him there. He could even be a support for you. Just because someone comes into your life doesn't mean your goals should stop. 1 reply
I got confessed through text multiple times (it was a "prank" everytime) but I don't want to say you shouldn't trust him, but maybe tell him that you two should talk about it in person. 2 reply
i think you should tell him what you said here. if both of you are comfortable with making compromises on both sides (you going out of your comfort zone aka pursuing this relationship and him respecting and understanding your situation and feelings about this) then i'd say go for it!
i'd also like to say that asking for breaks is also an option t...... 1 reply
Well, I guess you should tell him the same you wrote here. if you were friends than not a lot will change really. Your relationship will not turn into some sort of romantic dorama overnight. You’ll just keep getting closer and that’s all. reply
