BL perspective

Genuine question, where are the people who have been reading bl/yaoi for more than a decade? I assume you all have a family by now and if so, how did that affect your BL/yaoi reading or obsession?

I have been reading BL/yaoi for about a decade and im in my early 20s now and i dont think Ill stop reading it even if get married or stuff like that but im curious about others' experiences. Like do you let your partner know u read something like this, or just hide it.