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Would you stay friends with a morally wrong person?
Just a hypothetical question guys, if ur friend whom you've been friends with for a long time, you've been through thick and thin, up and down and all those things and then you found out that they're not what you think they are like example they're racist, sexist,etc, would you still stay friends with them?
No. I recently ended a friendship with someone, even though they begged me not too, after groping 3 girls as a "joke" (c'mon man what the fuck?!) Unfriend them, they are toxic people and will probably turn against you at some point. 2 reply
try to get them help. I don't think it is possible to just start hating a person after all of that... if they really want to cause harm or enjoy people being harmed then all I can do is to try to help them correct themselves. plus if you just let them go I think they'll probably hate said group even more. isn't that in a way being there for them at...... 2 reply
Why would I want to built community with people who think I’m sub-human and only want the brutalization and death of anyone
who looks/acts like me. reply
Absolutely not.
In fact I would even feel betrayed a bit. It would mean that I never truly knew that person. A friend of mine for that long and only now I get to find this side of them? It would be SO HARD to stay friends with someone who is, say, transphobic, homophobic, etc. Probably because I find it so mind boggling as so why people are so hat...... reply
no, i've learned the hard way. people won't change just because you want them to even you help them. they have to want it too and i'm a firm believer now of "stop seeing someone for their potential and see them for who they really are." i don't really hate them as i know they have reasons why they're like that, but using it as an excuse to be a ho...... reply
For me, I don't think, it's about whether I would want to stay friends with them or not, I couldn't....
I would definitely have a talk with them about it, but if we're so far apart in our values or thoughts that, I find them morally wrong, I couldn't stay friends with them....
How am I supposed to trust them or even just have fun with them if, I kn...... reply
honestly i believe everyone can change as long as they are capable of empathy. the reason people who have radical opinions are the way they are is bc they get into echo chambers that validate every shitty thought they have. if i truly like them and believe in their potential i probably wouldnt cut them off right away (this only applies if they have...... reply
