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My friend wants to get plastic surgery
What can I say to my friend to make her okay with her nose?
She wants to get plastic surgery in the future but her nose is so pretty. She doesn’t like it cause it’s “too large at the sides and stuff” but it’s so unique and really just makes her stand out wonderfully. If she gets the job then she’ll become conventional and I won’t tell her this but it would make her less beautiful, because the photoshop she does implicates what she wants and it makes her look boring, though she is very beautiful. I just want her to see that there is nothing wrong with her, that she is probably some model recruiters wet dream due to her height and looks but she just doesn’t see it and it’s like she never sees what makes her so beautiful and she has to photoshop her eyes and her nose and everything until she looks nothing like a real person much less herself
It just makes me frustrated and I told her if she does it I won’t talk to her for however much she paid for it but we’ve been friends for more than a decade and talk everyday so I would hate that
Also if you’re reading this I know you have a short attention span so you’ll skip to the end don’t read this I’ve already told you it go study
Are you with your friend because of how she looks? If so you're shallow and stupid and childish. To threaten your friend over a nose job that honestly has nothing to do with you is ridiculous. If she wants it she can get it. I'm assuming you're making your friend feel like shit is that what you want? Do you do this in other ways with your friendshi...... reply
Even if you don't agree with her decisions, it's her life. You can have different opinions on beauty standards but it's her body, she can do what she wants with it. I think the bad part of that you're willing to cut off a friend you've been friends with for a long time over a nosejob. Really? Listen to what you're saying for a second. reply
I kind of get where you’re coming from? My sister asked me something similar and I gave her an answer saying I love the way she already looks. But thinking back to this I hate the response I told her and if I could go back 100% I would tell her yeah go for it! There are some things I want to do to that wouldn’t get approval from my family as we...... reply
To update she’s not thinking of getting it anymore and it’s not the fact that she’ll look different it’s that she’ll become different. She’ll be 17 soon which is way too early to do plastic surgery because you still haven’t grown into your body. I would still be friends with her, I just wouldn’t talk to her given a month if she pay...... 2 reply
