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What can I say to my friend to make her okay with her nose?

She wants to get plastic surgery in the future but her nose is so pretty. She doesn’t like it cause it’s “too large at the sides and stuff” but it’s so unique and really just makes her stand out wonderfully. If she gets the job then she’ll become conventional and I won’t tell her this but it would make her less beautiful, because the photoshop she does implicates what she wants and it makes her look boring, though she is very beautiful. I just want her to see that there is nothing wrong with her, that she is probably some model recruiters wet dream due to her height and looks but she just doesn’t see it and it’s like she never sees what makes her so beautiful and she has to photoshop her eyes and her nose and everything until she looks nothing like a real person much less herself

It just makes me frustrated and I told her if she does it I won’t talk to her for however much she paid for it but we’ve been friends for more than a decade and talk everyday so I would hate that

Also if you’re reading this I know you have a short attention span so you’ll skip to the end don’t read this I’ve already told you it go study

How y’all manage time cause I always fall behind and I need to get in front.

I just turned in my delta math late that she assigned today so 8% which I can cope with, but I didn’t study for the test tomorrow. My English teacher assigned 80 pages to read today and it sucks cause on Wednesday I have activities as well as class changes so I don’t have the time I normally have. I haven’t started on my physics homework or my history homework and I’m late on a French assignment that was due tonight but it’s online and they only take off .09 per hour so I’m chilling. I guess I’ve done this to myself cause all of my classes are either ap or honours except for econ which is chill but I have a test in there tomorrow

I just don’t understand how people can do all this shit and then actually enjoy life. Plus I’m a night owl but school starts at like 7:30 so I lose a little part of myself every morning. Advice on how to manage time??

So I’m looking for dark romance BUT NOT THE ONE WHERE ONE IS BASICALLY THE ABSUED AND THE OTHER IS THE CAPTOR. I want a balanced amount of crazed love/hate/obsession on both sides, and this can be “romance” or psychological.

Similar to Checkmate (TAN) or A Lesson in Vengence (it’s a book and I’ll take book recs aussi pls but not really shows I like watching the same things again and again) because I’m tired of seeing one person take a beating and then say “oh but I think I’m in love with them ahh!” Like shut you’re goofy ass up what da heck kinda like Jinx (dropped it but I bet they fall in love because plot)

I developed ibs last year due to penicillin which basically made me throw up constantly from any sort of heavy food. I couldn’t eat before 12 pm and after 5 pm because I don’t know it didn’t like it and all food became dangerous and weaponised so I just ate crackers for a few months. I dropped around 40 pounds the first 2 months and then averaged out the next remaining months.

I’m allergic to red meat and lactose intolerant, both the throw up level of consumed too much. Items high in fructose, or foods with skin like certain nuts, fruits, vegetables and such hurt my stomach.

Here’s where i feel like im lying. I got onto a medication so I could be up early in the morning without getting the cramps, and it makes food a lot more bareable, like much more. But I don’t eat the foods. I now I won’t have that bad of consequences if I do eat the foods, but I had an incident on my birthday where I ate pancakes and a peach cobbler (before I got ibs)at Cracker Barrel and proceeded to throw up 7 times so much that I had to get my mom to buy me new clothes at the store next door so I could leave. So, basically im terrified of throwing up again and feeling that bad, and certain textures and looks of food just make me feel gross. I had that before like gagging before I could avocado down and I hate orange foods except for cantaloupe. But now cheese, real-dairy items and beef gross me out and I feel bad because im not going to throw up blood again because I have my medication so I should eat those foods but I give my family the hassle of finding a place that gives vegan options or things I can eat and I feel bad about it but I can’t bring myself to eat it because I’d just rather not eat because I won’t die if I don’t eat for a meal or a day or even a week. I have safe foods but I don’t always have them on me and I just don’t know how to actually eat the food if I get so nervous I start crying.

Also have issues with food regulation too because after going through ibs my stomach shrank considerably because I only ate like 500-800 calories a day, but then My medication is an appetite inhibitor which makes me hungry. The issue is I can’t tell between hunger, pain, and fullness, so I become really confused to whether I hurt or not or if I’m satisfied when I finish meals I was just wondering if anyone who has suffered the same thing knows how to fix this ?? It’s been a year and a half since this happened for anyone wondering


Tdrl or what ever it is; how to try new foods that make you nervous and how to make your stomach self regulate