Unpopular opinion (I guess)

I'm an army and I low-key feel embarrassed when I see older women as in middle aged women simp over BTS. Like maybe it's mean but what are you doing at your big age blushing about Jimin and Jungkook hugging, like go hug your kids tf. No hate though xx I just find that a bit weird. What do you guys think?
Cause that's why it took me soo long to actually pay attention to BTS, cause of the weirdos with the shirts acting like their parents didn't give them enough attention while growing up. That's why when I tell my friends I'm an army, they be comparing me to them like nooo I have class. Like yh I have a tiktok collection of them with 50+ vids but it ain't bad cause I know my capacities dya get ??