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Need an opinion on whether I'm overreacting or no?
Umm so hi. So I need an opinion on this. I'm 23 and I've never dated before. I met a guy yesterday on bumble(the dating app) he was sweet in the beginning. But then he started to ask me extremely personal questions. Like sexual ones. As in "do you mast*rb*ate", "how many fingers would you like." "I'd like to relieve you from being so innocent." And several other weird ass questions it made me really uncomfortable so I told him I won't answer any of those questions. And stopped the conversation there. Am I overreacting? Or are men usually like this? I have no experience whatsoever in dating so idk how to deal with these things. Please can I get some opinions? :( I'm really confused. I'm too embarrassed to tell my irl friends.
If ur uncomfortable with it; then no you didn't over react.
It's good that u told the dude you wouldn't answer those questions. Set those boundaries with everyone and eventually you'll find someone who respects them and hopefully who you'll like romanticly.
A lot of men on gross like that tho but there's bound to be some good ones out there.
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