Dating apps

Genuine question ik this stupid to ask on here but literally how do ppl find love on dating apps like I deadass just went through 9 of them and like they were all trashy lesbian dating apps like most ppl just want hookups and half of the girls on there don’t even respond back and like are sugar mamas like I’d have a better chance finding a gf on here LIKE how do even find lesbians who actually wanna be in a relationship??!! (╬￣皿￣)凸