ever had a dad like this?

1. he keeps on relying on my mom too often, my mom is always taking of my dad like hes a child but it's not the extreme way yk

2. I remember back then when my mom questioned my dad that if there was a fire my dad wouldn't save her and he just laughed, he said "of course I'm saving my life." (ik it's like a joke to them but he's acting that he's actually gon do that if ever"

3. I don't think he cares abt his kids cuz even though he raised me alone with my brother while my mom was in a different country for a job he still took care of us but he barely goes to work and rely on my mom to transfer some money... he does have a job originally but he chose to skip and spend his day talking w his buddies. I was always left alone in the house but thankfully my brother was there to do everything like pick me up from school, so technically my brother is the one who actly raised me

4. the oldest hated my dad like alot! idk y but I think it's the same reasons, but the beef between them cooled down when my mom made us all siblings sit in the living room and had a talk... it was a long story but they almost divorced

5. my dad is addicted to lotto... he would spend anything he has to lotto even if we almost ran out of money, he would bet on a lotto and all his reasoning if he was confronted to stop he would say "it's ok bec if I win I'll buy 'my name' a house!"

6. my dad stole my brother's lunch box many time bec he thought it's for him, so my brother started hiding his lunchboxes

7. everytime we go to a supermarket my dad drives us to the market and avoid paying and carrying the bags... he literally got mad at me saying I should help my mom when I'm literally am and he's just standing there doing nothing??? isn't the man supposed to do the carrying?

overall I still love my dad... maybe bec I'm just getting older now?? but I used to hate him sm back then, he's still the same and as he get older it's becoming worse...