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Am i overly being sensitive about this
I just keep on telling my partner that im either worried that hes getting too close to some or yet friendly with someone else since hes the type of as "friendly bf" and as such because of back then he didnt know that he was being too friendly and just made me kept on thinkin and thinking about it though I already told him my worries about it. As of now we didnt see ourselves in 2 months(due to me being able not too) and his school just started and I kept on telling my worries to him and of course he reassured me that he wont but I of course am still worried about it but im still bothered by the fact that my bf and my friends are somewhat close though ofc they knew eachother longer than me and one lives near and in the same location and yet ofc they dont like eachother romantically but i am still bothered since they hangout w eachother and also went to one of my friends house (tho I couldnt come) and watched a movie together like 3 of them but one of my friends(she has a bf) seem close but OFC they dont like eachother that way but the way they could hangout alone and walk alone together(sometimes because they live in the same area) js somewhat always bother me. Though that is because my bf used to like 2 of them but yes he doesnt see them as that way now but it STILL BOTHERS ME ON HOW HE CAN EASILY GO WITH THEM. Im easily jealous due to the past and I cant seem to change if I wanted too.
I know that I should normalize my bf having the opposite gender as friends but i cant stop myself from worrying about it thinking on how close they are even though its completely NORMAL ARGGGHHH and everytime I do get jealous or yet worry, I WOULD START TWEAKIN OR YET CAUSE MYSELF WORRYIN ABT IT ALL NIGHT AND CRY ABT IT EVEN THOUGH HE WONT DO THAT
Tbo this seems like a you problem, that is going to become an issue over time if it didn't already. You keep doubting the person you're dating and wanting him to isolate himself so you can feel more comfortable, which just leads to frustration and causes hurt because it seems like he is just so untrustworthy and such scum that interacting with othe...... 2 reply
Youre insecure in your relationship, stop telling your boyfriend youre worried about him getting too close to other people youre just gonna make him overthink his friendships and feel low. Tell him you have trust issues and are having obsessive thoughts of jealousy. You should say that youre sorry if youve said something that hurt him and that your...... reply
ive been on the other side of this and no offence but it may lead to frustration and will only separate u guys and especially for ur bf he might feel annoyed as he doesnt want to lose his friendships which hes had for ages
just remember he chose to date you not them
if he wanted to date those girls he wouldve by now since hes known them for so lon...... reply
I think it s not normal that a bf spends his time with the girls that he used to like without his actual girlfriend. And especially after you told him that you don't like it. Either he doesn't care about your feelings or he intentionally wants to make you jealous and if it s the last then it s a cheap move and if it s the first then he s a bad bf m...... reply
NEVER 'stop' a partner from cheating on you. Of course, don't push them into cheating on you but if you feel like you have to constantly be running interference to stop cheating then the relationship isn't right for you.
If someone wants to cheat, they will cheat. It's impossible to prevent someone from cheating, they are either cheaters or they a...... 1 reply
In all honesty, I fully agree that this is something you should address and try to fix. As someone who has been a victim of isolation in relationships and has dealt with the "girl best friend" situation, jealousy is more of a self-esteem issue than a love issue. I understand the discomfort when your partner has opposite-sex friends. However, it's i...... reply
I mean I think its normal to have concerns especially if they're hanging out without you present and he openly used to like two of them so I think that you could try set some boundaries, even if you trust him things like this need to happen in a relationship remember, communication is key. I think its fine that they're walking together and I advis...... reply
It's understandable your situation. I get that your partner should have friends but I do not agree that they do stuff as a couple. Ex: he can go out with a group of friendss[ male and female] but not hangout with a female friend. This is not about being jealous or possessive but when you are in a relationship both needs boundaries to respect each o...... reply
everyone else here seems to have a different mindset as me, but i would never hang out with people opposite sex from me even if we were friends longer than my lover now. the only time i’d let myself hang around the opposite sex is when someone my sex is there too. i think it’s just more of a respect thing. the only person i should want to hang ...... 1 reply
