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Am i overly being sensitive about this
I just keep on telling my partner that im either worried that hes getting too close to some or yet friendly with someone else since hes the type of as "friendly bf" and as such because of back then he didnt know that he was being too friendly and just made me kept on thinkin and thinking about it though I already told him my worries about it. As of now we didnt see ourselves in 2 months(due to me being able not too) and his school just started and I kept on telling my worries to him and of course he reassured me that he wont but I of course am still worried about it but im still bothered by the fact that my bf and my friends are somewhat close though ofc they knew eachother longer than me and one lives near and in the same location and yet ofc they dont like eachother romantically but i am still bothered since they hangout w eachother and also went to one of my friends house (tho I couldnt come) and watched a movie together like 3 of them but one of my friends(she has a bf) seem close but OFC they dont like eachother that way but the way they could hangout alone and walk alone together(sometimes because they live in the same area) js somewhat always bother me. Though that is because my bf used to like 2 of them but yes he doesnt see them as that way now but it STILL BOTHERS ME ON HOW HE CAN EASILY GO WITH THEM. Im easily jealous due to the past and I cant seem to change if I wanted too.
I know that I should normalize my bf having the opposite gender as friends but i cant stop myself from worrying about it thinking on how close they are even though its completely NORMAL ARGGGHHH and everytime I do get jealous or yet worry, I WOULD START TWEAKIN OR YET CAUSE MYSELF WORRYIN ABT IT ALL NIGHT AND CRY ABT IT EVEN THOUGH HE WONT DO THAT
The good part is that you acknowledge that your boyfriend having other female friends is normal, as much as it is that you have other male friends, and more importantly, it's healthy.
If you also acknowledge that being this jealous is a problem for you (not being able to focus on other things and not trusting your partner IS a problem), what you s...... reply
It sounds like your priorities in a relationship are different from his, and maybe that just means you two are incompatible. A great partner is someone who you don't worry about these things with because you trust them. It doesn't seem like you trust your bf, which is fine unless you want a serious serious relationship with him that HAS to be found...... reply
yeah this is normal, i’d assume your like a teenager and bruh like it’s ok to feel this way. sorry but like i find it weird when people hang out with their MPS alone, esp if they used to like them.
i referred to this as a “guy and a girl hanging out alone”, and i meant like a straight guy and girl. which in this case eachother are MPS. if...... reply
Have you ever stated anything to the bf expressing how you feel if you didn't try that first to see if they would consider how they interact with them since he expressed feelings for them once upon a time..... But you should still work on your self esteem so that these feeling of jealous can be dealt with. reply
A real partner would limit his time with them. If he didn’t do that after you told him multiple times then he does not care. He does not value your feelings or opinions as nuch as you think. He values his time with his friend more than you.
My boyfriend immediately stop hanging out with any female friends after I aksed him too. Which I didn’t e...... reply
Used to like both of them? And he's not going to leave them alone? I don't think this will end well. I've seen these cases before and there's always a problem. Please find someone who listens and cares for you. You can do better. 1 reply
