Sorry, guys! During system maintenance, some functions like comment are unavailable.
Fuckkkk chat what do I do????
I fell in love with my homie’s girlfriend. The girl mentioned a few times that she used to have a crush on me, but that at the time I was taken so she couldn’t act on it. Whenever we hangout she jokes about us being wives and herself being a better boyfriend than my ex. I slowly realized ‘shit I think I like her’ as we hung out more. But she was dating my best friend. They just now broke up though. I love my best friend, but he was not a good boyfriend and I kept selfishly thinking about treating her better than he did. I of course am not going to swoop in right away at all, but should I try to pursue it? Or does it go against bro code?
I should also mention my homie broke up with her over TEXT. Bro is out here fumbling a baddie.
Ultimately it’s still the girl’s choice ofc. But should I talk about it with my friend??? 1 reply
Given that your best friend just broke up with her, it's also important to give yourself time and space. Don't act in an impulse, as we may probably do. You might want to reflect first for youself. "Do I have feelings for her because I want to treat her better than her ex did?" might not be a good way to approach this situation. Also think about he...... reply
Honestly, start by discussing this with your best friend seriously. Letting him know how you feel about her will let you two work out how it will move forward. If he no longer has an attachment to her, and if he wishes to support you as a friend should, than I’m sure things will work out. It’s better to be open about it now and strike while the...... reply
Wait for a bit, then talk to your friend.
If you want to keep your friendship and avoid her being talked badly about, don't jump it immediately.
I dated a friend's ex and she was fine with it. But I wouldn't have done it if she hadn't been okay with it.
Express to your friend how serious you are but that you also value your friendship but most imp...... reply
