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how do i stop cutting people off
After graduating from school this summer, I decided to cut ties with most of my school friends. I didn't particularly enjoy their company. They tried to reach out at first but eventually stopped. However, there's this one girl who keeps contacting me almost every day from different numbers. I did this with my middle school friends too. I had always been distant during our friendship, and at times I outright told them that I would cut all contact after leaving school but they never took me seriously. my past romantic relationships have ended in disaster too, because of my emotional unavailability. As I spend more time with people, I always get annoyed at every little thing they do. it's like I get an ick from them just breathing. How can I become more attentive to others?
look into avoidant attachment style and demand avoidance. set boundaries. i had the exact same problem all my life but then i realized that 'ick' is literally just my reaction to people having expectations of me that i felt like i couldnt meet. it becomes so much easier to manage when you clearly communicate your needs. if you dont feel like meetin...... 3 reply
You need to start rebuilding a new relationship with yourself because I think you get annoyed by every little thing since you haven't found peace and happiness within yourself. It's like when you're hungry, you get annoyed at everything, so lean back and feed your soul and body some Snickers
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That’s so real omg, I also recently graduated and have had classmates of mine reach out to me. I also talk with them and stuff but I’d rather keep in touch with my rlly close friends, my for-lifers haha,,, but um, I guess if you want to become more attentive to others just humor them and chat with them awhile,
Like just put in the effort to at ...... reply
Well, do you want to be around people? First, you have to admit you want a relationship. If you’re happy the ways things are, why change? Unless you feel like you’re missing something.
Also, it seems like you didn’t really like your friends and we’re just tolerating them till school was over.
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It a u problem that u have to solve. It might be a mental problem tbh. I have the same problem too, I lost contact with many of my old friends due to me not reaching out to them and I regret it a lot; I've been solving my problems piece by piece and it's helping me become more social, but I still have problems texting and calling people. Take a bre...... reply
