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Does it make you a bad person/friend if you didn't mean to do it?
Like what if you didn't know it was going to hurt their feelings or you were hurting them? I'm not talking about where u only care about yourself I'm just talking you were straight up unaware of others like you made a joke that u thought was obvious, you did something that you thought would be beneficial or would help, you misinterpreted their words/intentions so you're hurt and said some mean things.
No, not necessarily.
Mistakes are human and that's okay. It boils down to how you react.
If you make a mistake, apologize and try to correct it.
What you also have to take into account is how such mistakes may appear to your friends. I'm not accusing you of anything here, this is just how I think one may think about this.
If you make a joke about ...... reply
Nope, since you are aware that you are at fault and feel guilty.
You could've blame your friend for being sensitive while staying ignorant because you didn't mean to, instead felt sorry for what you said because you know what you said was not alright to the other person.
Just as long you apologize sincerely and hope your words comes through the o...... reply
Obviously not, everyone has done it at least once. What differentiates the situations is how u reacted after. Did u apologize and correct ur mistake? Did u feel bad for what u did? Did u at least never said those jokes again? Yes? Then ur a good friend reply
U reminded me of when I was a young ass kid and I was playing with group of friends. Basically the game was about guessing the name through lookin at each other lips. And my friend said a name and I made a joke about it thinking it was funny but then it was her dead father's name..I felt like shit and kept saying sorry every time I met her.
So wha...... reply
bad person? no. bad friend? maybe. we make mistakes and thats okay but if you find yourself constantly doing things that hurt other people you should reflect on your actions. at some point "sorry i didnt realize/couldnt help it" just doesnt work reply
tbh this is one of those questions where it really depends on the joke or the person. sometimes you can mean no harm to someone when telling them a joke, but they can take it an offensive way. when you mean no harm to it, you're not being a bad person nor a bad friend. sometimes people are sensitive about things that we couldn't know about. As long...... reply
