I usually only use those terms when refering to yaoi manga (smutty) as it is standard of the genre that one of the 2 is designated as "seme" or "uke". Don't get mad at the people who use the terms when the genre they read demands for it. Also gay men don't read yaoi (that I know of) and they should be the ones speaking on the complexities of such a...... 2 reply
