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i dont have friends(sorry im just venting)
So i recently lost my best friends because they got tired of me being depressed cause it made them feel drained and stuff and ig they just didn't want to deal with me anymore, even tho I was always there for them whenever they needed anything and I would always ask if they were ok when they seemed down. They always acted like i was causing problems making me look like the bad person. They never realized their own mistakes but instead blamed everything on me. I was the one always apologizing or asking if they were ok. It just hurts cause I cared sm about them but they didn't care as much about me and never understood my feelings or cared enough to be there for me. - The thing is, im going into my senior yr with no friends and no one to hang with at lunch or break ya kno so ig i just need advice on how to make more friends when everyone is in their friend groups already And for those who went through similar things how did you deal with it? How do you stay positive and stuff
Considering your situation, I think the best thing you can do is join a club. Extracurricular activities are the best and easiest way to go about making friends, especially if it is something you genuinely enjoy. In doing so, you'll be able to meet more people with similar interests as you. Don't wait for someone to talk to you. Sometimes you have ...... reply
I experienced the same thing. My friends left me because of my depression and eating disorder. I didn't blame them since I brought sadness to their life by being negative but I feel hurt too cause I also needed someone that time. My advice is, just try to think anything good in your day and smile through it. Be friendly and don't be afraid to talk ...... reply
Okay so from senior year, I assume you are either still in school... Or college perhaps, either way I thought I'd jump in on this because back in school I went through something similar and figured I may be able to help a little.
Firstly, there is absolutely nothing wrong with venting to strangers online, alot of the time, it can be easier than ven...... 1 reply
I experienced the same thing last year, my friends abandoned me because I never left my house, I always said no to go out because I was much too sad and ''sick'' to see people, even if I loved them and it had nothing to do with them. So I fully understand how you feel right now. If I can give you advice, it's to live for you. It hurts to lose the...... 4 reply
So its like this. Friendship (or any other relationship) is not like maths. I care for u so u care me. It just doesnt work that way. It may be 'give and take' but if u give with the intention and expectation of getting it back, it becomes business not a relationship.
Now it seems that your friends had been with u until it became a burden for them t...... 1 reply
There was a time when I was always alone too because my best friend assumed I betrayed her and she simply proceeded to keep hanging out with the person she found more fun to be with. But I don't blame her anymore. It was true I didn't share her interests so of course she would hang out more with those who shares it with her. And I simply went back ...... 1 reply
I'm sorry to hear that and I feel for you bruh. I've had some of close friends who I thought would stay with me for a long time leave and it sucks. Same as you, we were on the last year of JH so on my senior yr, I was kinda lonely and awkward. Because of this, I contemplate about my problems alone and occasionally share some stuff but just enough t...... 4 reply
You don't need anybody; you have to get yourself together and stop thinking that it's the end of the world. You are still young and many things are waiting for you ahead, focus and give your energy to studying. Friends will come later on naturally and you will get to know people on the way
I spent a year and half in university completely alone that...... 1 reply
