Growing up with an all male friend grp as a women

Someone sent me a tiktok that said " when your card declines at the therapist's so they gotta bring up all the boys you used to play with in your neighborhood who grew up to be literal monsters", and I haven't been able to stop thinking about it. The way I'm not able to forge friendships with men now, the same kids i was sworn brothers with (a figurative term) have grown up into misogynistic pieces of shit.
It's a canon event unfortunately