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wondering if you have a toxic family
Have you ever come to a point of conclusion where your family is toxic, I mean as kids we tend to love them with all heart and forgive them for every little mistake, but as I grew older I became very perceptive of their actions and insights on stuff, which were wrong, and I knew I was in a toxic family. For example, My brother blames every mistake HE DID on his family or me, or most of the time he blames God, and my parents who always choose what's "BEST" for me even though it's not what I wanted nor love.
dad-
not together with mom
always talks shit about my mother
always talks crap about his family
smokes
drinks every time I'm with him
always yells
has guns and swords (idk)
yells at me if I don't message him back (to the point I'm going to cry or do)
has racist friends
probably is a racist
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sister-
body shames me cause I'm chubby
bossy
anger ...... reply
My parents criticize me a lot and I don't think I've heard them say one good thing about me in the past 2 years lol. They never listen to my point of view. They just shout their opinions at me and turn around and walk away whenever I try to explain my side of the story. After a few years of arguing with them, I got tired and gave up. Now I just let...... reply
All my life the two most toxic people I've known in my family are my dad and my uncle (who is his brother). My dad is narcissistic and my uncle is more like a psychopath ( I'm not joking). My dad is extremely selfish and likes to degrade and hurt others even if they are close relatives. My uncle is someone who likes messing with people's lives and ...... reply
I'm not really sure if this is toxic or not (I think my father is) but he's always had a temper. His side of the family is definitely toxic though. His anger would very on his mood and he would throw things (not at us but just in general) and he would get loud. He wouldn't listen to us at all in that state. But once he was out of it he just wouldn'...... 1 reply
i think my family may be toxic. my family humiliates (is humiliate too strong of a word? make me embarrassed of myself) me for everything i do basically, such as today; i tried putting on eyeliner for the first time. when my mum saw what i looked like, she was saying that i looks awful and laughed at me- that’s the thing with my family, they neve...... 1 reply
Honestly, I used to think that my family was toxic and treated me badly, but then I realized that it was just me screwing up my relationship with them by being toxic myself. reply
I don't think I have a toxic family. In fact, my family is quite lovely.
But I believe they do have a bit of toxic behaviours. My parents are very impatient ppl, and they also talk bad behind others and always assume bad things about others. My family is also the type to bring up any past mistakes whenever there is a fight or argument (which obvi...... 1 reply
Well if I'm being honest my family can be toxic. For example, they're always talking about how I should lose weight, but it's a bit difficult for me. I've tried everything, diets, eating less, and sometime I've even starved myself, but nothing works. My two brothers weigh around 130-140 but they're very skinny. I wish I had the same body type so my...... 2 reply
I wouldn't really say that they were toxic but my parents had never looked at me and my siblings. I'm the youngest between three girls, and growing up my mom is a bit lenient on me. I knew it caused some sort of wall between us three because our parents never looked at us fairly. My eldest sister get all the blame, my second sister is basically my ...... reply
