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Should I talk to my crush?
I had a crush on my classmate for 4 years so I confessed to him before transferring schools, he told me "I have to study" to my face not even a no. Well one of my friends told him that it was some sort of a dare ,I felt really angry coz she didn't even ask me for my consent.so because of this I confessed AGAIN...this time he was like "ah ok" and walked away..again I was very much confused Fast forward a few months some of his friends asked my bestfriend whether I was genuine about it. So my bestfriend said yes and told them that I was very sad coz he didn't even give me proper no Next day his friends again met her and said that they told the conversation between them to my crush and he was like " it's not like I don't like her it's just that we're supposed to study at this age" like broo you could've told me that it's not like I'm gonna eat u or something Also once when him and his friends were playing truth or dare his friends asked him who his crush was...AND GUESS WHAT HE TOLD MY NAME Just what is this scenario? Should I talk to him in person?( he blocked me)
Nahhh
He’s telling you no by making up those excuses
If he was into you he would be all over that.
Don’t be desperate or parasocial (no offense)
U wanna give your energy to someone who wants it. Aka not him.
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Nah! He a red flag,run away from him.. he didn't have the guts to say 'no' which is why he told he gotta study!!! He weird he's giving mixed feelings.
He might be playing with ur feelings too since he knows ya like him and uk did what he did. 2 reply
Sit him down and ask him wtf is going on, take whatever he says as a FINAL ANSWER. If he avoids answering, take it as a no. Unless he says “Yeah, I like you too!” Or smthing don’t waste you time and energy on it.
Edit: AND, and, even if he does say he likes you don’t get too attached. Best case scenario he’s an anxious guy who has commi...... reply
If he likes you but manages to fumble you twice thats on him. If he can’t give you a proper answer then you need a better man because he’s definitely the type to be indecisive and misleading. Genuinely think you deserve better but thats just me. You can try giving him a last call response to settle it and get your closure and yes you should tal...... reply
Man is leading you on, I've used this "students should focus on academics" "we need to study at this age" excuse like a hundred times when I wanted to reject a guy (i wasn't leading them on it's just that guys get really violent sometimes if you say that they're ugly straight to their faces or tell them no), he definitely likes that you like him, b...... reply
Run. Actually don’t run SPRINT. He’s not the one for you! You deserve so much better! I get that you’re supposed to be studying but if he really loved you he wouldn’t let you slip through his fingers like that! reply
